Others describe you as a high-achiever but you never quite feel like that. To you, nothing you do ever feels good enough and so you keep tinkering and perfecting whatever it is you are doing because maybe, just maybe, this next tweak will be the one thing that sets your work apart from the rest.

And that’s what you ultimately desire: creating something that stands out; creating something truly special and unique that astounds others.

Your standards are very high and you will always do your very best and go above and beyond what others expect from you. 

But that can come at a great cost: you often feel frustrated and disappointed. There is an underlying anxiety that spurs you on and makes you drain your energy and time pursuing what others would describe as impossible: perfection.

But every now and then you do achieve it and so this cycle just keeps going. Only each time, you’re feeling more and more exhausted and deflated. Your heart’s not in it anymore and it gets harder and harder to motivate yourself. 

You also struggle to just have a go and act on your inspiration or interest. If you don’t know how to perfect it before you start, you don’t even consider doing it anymore. And so, you do less and achieve less which is highly frustrating for you. You talk down to yourself and push yourself harder and harder and still nothing changes and nothing shifts.

And these beliefs and fears feel very true.

For someone who achieves so much, you feel very down about yourself most of the time.

Your sense of worth is very much linked to your achievements and so you constantly walk on shaky grounds. Every step you take feels scary because what if you get it wrong? It always sets off a spiral of feeling like a failure, beating yourself up and your self-esteem taking a huge battering.

It can take you days or sometimes even weeks to receive from it all.

The "problem" is that you have a dream and you are unwilling to give up on it. (Good for you!!!)

You will not let your fears stop you (YES!). You will not let all the striving be in vain. So what choice is there other than to keep going like this?

And so you muster up all the courage you possibly can, pick yourself up and start this never-ending, painful cycle all over again … because maybe, just maybe, next time you’ll finally make it perfect …

How Does Wearing the Cloak of Perfectionism Show up in Your Career or Business?

At work, you obsess over details, can fly into a rage when things don’t work out and frequently feel annoyed with others who don’t seem to pay much attention to the quality of their work. 

You need things to be clear and planned because any kind of unpredictability or lack of information can send you into a nervous frenzy.

You’re rarely ever in flow and it’s getting increasingly harder to enjoy your work because you put yourself under so much pressure to achieve the best results possible that all your creativity and inspiration are stifled and suffocated.

This often results in bouts of inaction fuelled by indecision … because every step feels so very risky.

When it doesn’t feel safe to be you and to learn and develop at your own pace and in your own way,  and when someone ties your worth to your productivity, achievements or results, you start to protect yourself by focusing away from yourself and your inner truth and give your energy and time to perfecting the outside conditions of your life and your achievements instead.

By doing so, you stop others from judging you, criticising you, ridiculing you, rejecting you and hurting you.

It’s a powerful strategy you learnt during childhood and that can be difficult to give up because you do get results and those results are greatly celebrated in our society.

But here’s the thing …

What if you could have achieved even more while simultaneously enjoying it?

What if perfectionism has always held you back from being all that you can be and you falsely attributed your success to the misaligned strategy of perfectionism?

What if realising this would make it easy for you to let go of the Cloak of Perfectionism and freely embrace who you are, your unique talents and gifts and the soul-aligned process that inevitably leads to mind-blowing results and achievements?

I have a feeling you’re ready to experience soul-aligned success that takes you to the realms of self-actualisation …

INTRODUCING

Where empowered inner healing and soul-alignment helps you to unlock your gifts, unleash your potential and realise your success goals.

You were born perfect with unique gifts and talents.

There is something only you are meant to bring to this world.

You have a deeper purpose and you have a special message.

Both of them are hidden below layers of conditioning, some unresolved trauma, other people’s judgments you've internalised, your fears and insecurities, and lots of lies and limiting beliefs.

When you find yourself going through the motions, feeling burnt out, frustrated or trapped in outdated patterns that once protected you but are now holding you back from achieving the success and impact you know you can have, you know it’s time for a BIG change.

To unleash your truth.

To unlock your gifts.

To activate your potential.

To finally feel complete, worthy and free.

And that is possible for you!

If you are ready for it, nothing and no one can stop you. I promise.

🤍 Being crystal-clear about who you are, what you stand for and what you want your life to look like.

🤍 Knowing that whatever challenges present themselves you will make it happen and achieve what you want to achieve, confidently and unwaveringly.

🤍 Enjoying the process of healing, growing, creating and turning your desires and dreams into tangible realities?

🤍 Having a deeply positive impact on others, feeling irresistibly attractive, being sought after in your career or business and receiving raving reviews.

🤍 Thriving in your career and having no competition because your success is based on your soul-aligned message that attracts perfectly matched clients and work opportunities.

Notice when you're in perfectionism mode and when your anxiety increases. What are the symptoms that show up for you?

Get very clear about this so that every time you notice yourself drawn into it you con consciously choose to take a break to ground yourself in the present moment, clear your mind and calm your body. 

Re-evaluate your standards and expectations. Are these the standards other people live by too? Do you expect these standards from others or only yourself? How much sense do these standards make and how realistic are they?

Sometimes the only reason we continue a pattern or habit is because we have not asked ourselves in a long time whether we still agree with it or not. When we realise that we actually no longer believe something, it's much easier to ditch it and replace with with something healthier and more effective. 

If you have already followed the hundreds of tips and tricks you can find online and nothing much has shifted for you, it shows that your perfectionism is staying in place because an unresolved pattern drives it.

Everything we do makes sense. If it felt safe for you to take off the Cloak of Perfectionism, you would be doing it. You can try to uncover the deeper patterns but most of us need help from the outside in doing so. I specialise in uncovering unconscious patterns because once they're conscious and everything begins to make sense to you, it's much easier to let go of outdated safety strategies that now keep us stuck in old patterns.

I'm Ready to Feel Free, Confident & Excited about Creating Success My Way