Your Success Block:
The Cloak of Invisibility
You are liked by most and generally really popular. You are kind and polite. You are successful and your life looks pretty perfect from the outside looking in.
But here’s something most people don’t know about you: that you struggle to open up and show up fully and authentically.
Behind that polished facade of yours, there is a depth not many get to see. You have gifts, talents and strong beliefs.
On the inside, you are a force to be reckoned with for all the right reasons. But on the outside, you are tame. You are difficult to criticise because you just look so damn perfect.
And when you were little that served you well. In your adult life, however, it’s holding you back.
Your relationships don’t feel as connected, fulfilling and enjoyable as you know they could be. In your career or business, you plateau even though you hustle hard. In your life, it can sometimes feel like you’re going through the motions but that nothing is really about you.
I get that. I used to hide a lot too. It is one way to avoid our deepest fears and insecurities.
Can You Relate?
If you’re like me and so many others who struggle to open up and show up more authentically, then you might be able to relate to some of the following fears:
✖️If you show up as you, people will start to dislike you and you will lose family, friends, followers, clients and other important people in your life.
✖️ If you show up as you, people will realise that you’re not as good as they thought you were and you will feel humiliated.
✖️ If you show up as you, others will feel disappointed in you and leave you because who would want you around?
✖️If you show up as you and voice your beliefs and opinions honestly, openly and fully, others will criticise you, judge you and publicly shame you.
✖️ If you fully express yourself and stand up for what you believe in, you will go out of business, will get cancelled and lose your career and income.
And so on and so forth …
I know that these beliefs and fears feel very true.
For someone who is so kind and achieves so much, you worry a lot about people disliking you and losing your career over being who you are.
What I know to be true is that the more we hide behind a mask, the less confident we feel in ourselves, in our achievements and our successes.
And it hurts because we can never get proven wrong as long as we keep hiding our true self but is exactly what we must do to avoid being proven right and that is just way too scary.
And so, it feels easier to just keep playing this pattern out again and again and again despite the pain and suffocating restriction and limitation it causes.
But here’s your ‘problem’: you want more.
You know that there is more to life than playing out this role and wearing this mask to please others and to keep yourself safe from judgment and rejection.
You have desires and you have dreams. You have a goddamn personality that begs to be seen and to shine!
You are the full package! Truly.
It’s only your fear holding you back from showing, from shining, from being wanted, loved and chosen for being you. Authentically you. All of you.
How Does Wearing the Cloak of Invisibility Show up in Your Career or Business?
You are committed to achieving your next level success and income goal. You’re competent. You’re hard working. You’ve got what it takes.
And still, it’s not happening no matter what you try while you watch lots of you peers leap from one next level goal to the next.
How are they doing it when your work is so much better!?
They put themselves out there. Not their content. Not their product. Not their education. Themselves.
They show up as themselves and they let people choose them for who they are.
They don’t hide anything because they don’t want to attract who is not meant for them.
They don’t hold back because they only want aligned clients who want to be taught how to be successful for who they are too.
No one wants to be taught how to hide, stifle their passions, truths and beliefs or wear a polished mask.
You struggle to show up, be forceful with your opinions or share what’s really going on for you - whether that’s a low mood day, a disappointment or a mistake you made.
And strangely, that is exactly what’s holding you from leaping into your next level success or income goal.
Because what that requires of MORE OF YOU.


And What About Your Relationships?
I’ve got a little bit of a hard truth to share with you here but it’s important for you to hear it:
Your relationships are limited by how much you open up and share of yourself.
The less you show up as you, the more superficial and less enjoyable they will be.
People might describe you as super-nice but are you memorable when you don’t share all of you, your edges and unique quirks?
Do you get from your relationships what you need or is what is lacking a symptom of you holding back?
When we’ve been in hurt in relationships for being who we are, it’s hard to try again - I completely understand it.
But what we needed to do as children in order to protect our sense of self, is what damages our adult relationships.
Because what’s needed more than anything is YOU in it.
So yes, I can clearly hear you asking,
"Why Am I Wearing This Cloak of Invisibility?!"
Wearing the Cloak of Invisibility is a self-protective strategy you developed as a child to keep yourself safe.
When you expressed yourself openly and fully, you got negative feedback and so you learnt to hide yourself, to not share your truths or beliefs, to not ask for what you truly want and to pretend to be just the socially acceptable parts of yourself.
This strategy kept you safe and became a normal way of being for you.
In fact, it helped you to achieve extra-ordinary success in many different areas of life such as relationships, community and your career.
But here’s the thing …
What if you got those amazing results DESPITE wearing the Cloak of Invisbility?
What if you could have achieved even more while actually enjoying it all too?
What if inhibiting yourself and trying to be all smooth, perfect and polished has actually held you back from being all that you can be and you falsely attributed your success to the misaligned strategy of playing small and not being seen for who you really are?
And what if realising this would make it easy for you to let go of the Cloak of Invisibility so that you could freely embrace who you are, your unique talents and gifts and the soul-aligned success strategy that inevitably leads to mind-blowing results and achievements?
I have a feeling you’re ready to experience soul-aligned success that takes you into the realms of self-actualisation …
INTRODUCING

Where empowered inner healing and soul-alignment helps you to unlock your gifts, unleash your potential and realise your success goals.
You were born perfect with unique gifts and talents.
There is something only you are meant to bring to this world.
You have a deeper purpose and you have a special message.
Both of them are hidden below layers of conditioning, some unresolved trauma, other people’s judgments you've internalised, your fears and insecurities, and lots of lies and limiting beliefs.
When you find yourself going through the motions, feeling burnt out, frustrated or trapped in outdated patterns that once protected you but are now holding you back from achieving the success and impact you know you can have, you know it’s time for a BIG change.
All It's Time To Become All of You!
To unleash your truth.
To unlock your gifts.
To activate your potential.
To finally feel complete, worthy and free.
And that is possible for you!
If you are ready for it, nothing and no one can stop you. I promise.

As a trauma-informed psychotherapist and self-actualisation coach for ambitious high-achievers, I have helped hundreds of my amazing clients uncover their gifts and truths by healing some old wounds that have kept them stuck in self-sabotage patterns they mostly weren’t aware of.
Prior to coming to work with me, they had tried mindset work, energy shifting, reiki, counselling, hypnotherapy and lots of shiny sales and marketing strategies that promised them their first billion in the next 4 weeks. Everything has value in its own way but I like to address root causes with my Soul-Aligned Success Activation method because it is the only method I have discovered so far that makes logical sense and therefore allows our brain to drop its resistance to the changes we need to make so that we can get what we want.
Together, we work with all of you: your emotions, your nervous system, your brain, your mind and thoughts, your desires and your actions.
I show you how to understand yourself on the deepest level possible so that you can banish self-doubt forever.
It’s about deep inner connection, freedom and empowerment which in combination result in unwavering worthiness.
I did it. And so have hundreds of my 1-1 clients. Now, I’d love you to join us.


🤍 Being crystal-clear about who you are, what you stand for and what you want your life to look like.
🤍 Knowing that whatever challenges present themselves you will make it happen and achieve what you want to achieve, confidently and unwaveringly.
🤍 Enjoying the process of healing, growing, creating and turning your desires and dreams into tangible realities?
🤍 Having a deeply positive impact on others, feeling irresistibly attractive, being sought after in your career or business and receiving raving reviews.
🤍 Thriving in your career and having no competition because your success is based on your soul-aligned message that attracts perfectly matched clients and work opportunities.
"Okay But How Do I Get Rid of My Cloak of Invisbility?"

Notice when you're in invisibility mode and when your anxiety increases. What are the symptoms that show up for you?
Get very clear about this so that every time you notice yourself drawn into it you can consciously choose to take a break to ground yourself in the present moment, clear your mind and calm your body.

Re-evaluate how you want to show up and how you want to live your life. What would life feel like for you if you allowed yourself to just be you? Could you learn to just let yourself be and love yourself for it? Could you let others see you so they could choose you?
Sometimes the only reason we continue a pattern or habit is because we have not asked ourselves in a long time whether we still need it or not. When we realise that it has actually become redundant, it's much easier to ditch it and replace with with something healthier and more effective.

If you have already followed the hundreds of tips and tricks you can find online and not much has shifted for you, it shows that your invisibility habit is staying in place because an unresolved pattern drives it.
Everything we do makes sense. If it felt safe for you to take off the Cloak of Invisibility, you would be doing it. You can try to uncover the deeper patterns but most of us need help from the outside in doing so. I specialise in uncovering unconscious patterns because once they're conscious and everything begins to make sense to you, it's much easier to let go of outdated safety strategies that now keep us stuck in old patterns.