Your Boundary Block: DISCONNECTION
Your replies indicate that not being clear about what your boundaries are stops you from setting them.
You’re easy-going, tolerant and flexible. It’s obvious why people love to spend their time with you!
You’re fun to be around and you know just have to keep peace.
You’re also very kind and friendly and you try your best to never inconvenience anyone.
What’s not to love!?
Well, sometimes the other person gets to call all the shots and you can easily find yourself in situations in which you’re not even considered or asked what it is you want.
Instead, other people make decisions for you.
Maybe they don’t think that you care. Maybe they’re doing it because they want what they want.
Either way, it’s not a very balanced relationship. And that’s never a good sign …
Your big challenge?
You need to learn to step up in your relationships, make yourself matter too and contribute more of yourself.
You need to get better at figuring out what you want or don’t want and then say it.
You need to give other people an opportunity to get to know the real you.
You need to give them a chance to care and show that they care about you.
I know that that can seem scary but you’re ready to attract and surround yourself with people who truly love you for who you are. And you’re making that easier for them when you show them who you are.
Read on to discover the boundary boosts that will help you to speak your truth while simultaneously improving your relationships.
You Are Ready To Speak Your Truth, Attract People Who Love You For Who You Are, Feel Confident & Create Relationships In Which You Matter And Feel Truly Loved
Hello I'm Marlena!
I’m a psychotherapist, relationship and self-transformation coach who helps ambitious and kind people who care, do and love too much in the wrong relationships, rebuild themselves, find their voice and power, step into worthiness mode and create the happy and healthy relationships they deserve.
Because no matter what has happened in your past, you can get the love you need and create a magnificent life full of love, wealth and success. And I am living proof of that!
I can give you the tools you need to succeed in your relationships, feel comfortable and confident in your life and excited to show up unapologetically while attracting amazing people who love you for who you really are so you finally feel chosen, appreciated and loved.
DISCOVER YOUR BOUNDARY BOOSTS!
1. Check in with yourself.
Setting boundaries depends on your level of self-awareness and your willingness to express yourself and deal with the consequences of that.
Your biggest boundary boost right now is to notice your boundaries. Ask yourself numerous times a day what you want and take your time to figure it out.
Check in with yourself and ask yourself whether this is something you want or don’t want.
Your boundaries fall into the space between what you want and don’t want so the clearer you are around that, the easier it will get to set boundaries.
2. Equalise yourself.
Healthy relationships are all about being equal. It’s not healthy to not make yourself matter or to always give in … even if you struggle to know what you want.
So keep asking yourself that until you get really good at knowing what you want and don’t want. Then stand by it. And stand up for it.
So far, you let others get what they wanted because you weren’t sure what you wanted. This changes now!
What you want matters too! So figure it out, then express it and make it happen … all while improving your relationships by becoming more varied and interesting.
3. Take care of yourself.
Always remember that setting boundaries means that you are taking care of yourself. It’s a sign of emotional maturity and personal growth that others will respect you for.
You will also feel more confident, empowered , supported and energised in your life.
Look at all the positive ways that boundary setting is good for you and for those you love and make a list that you can read daily.
Write down some practical examples of what taking care of yourself looks like to you and begin to take daily action.
A BONUS Boost Personally From Me To You
Watch this short video to learn my favourite and most empowering boundary boost that has given me back my voice and allows me to be unapologetically me in relationships without offending other people.
BUT WAIT!!!
You're Ready Right Now to Ditch The Guilt & Set Boundaries To Create Amazing Relationships In Which You Feel Loved, Heard & Appreciated?
Then 'Together in Truth & Love' Is The Perfect Next Step For You!
Learn the 5 empowering boundary-setting methods that will allow you to say what you want to say without feeling guilty, selfish or unreasonable and create healthy and reciprocal relationships from the start!
Speak Your Truth
Say what you want and mean what you say without doubting or questioning yourself.
Grow In Confidence
Know that what you are saying matters and that you're not being unreasonable.
Feel Heard
Finally feel heard and understood and know that you matter to the other person.
Be Loved
Know that you are loved for who you are and feel safe and free to open up to your loved ones.
Imagine You Felt Free To Say What You Need to Say ...
What would that be like for you?
To say no when you need to and to say yes when you want to?
To consider what you want and not to simply choose what others want?
To never feel guilty or selfish for being honest about what's going on for you?
To know that others like you for who you are because they truly know you?
To set boundaries completely guilt-free no matter who you're talking to?
Imagine ...
SET GUILT-FREE BOUNDARIES
with 'Together in Truth & Love'.
Create amazing, enjoyable and respectful relationships that are easy to enjoy, make your life better and boost your self-esteem.
Learn when to set boundaries and how to word them in a way that is non-confrontational and instead helps you to connect on a deeper level.
Apply this powerful knowledge to all types of relationships and watch your connections with others improve and thrive.
Carol, UK
"Marlena has helped me find my voice and I feel stronger than ever! It's like I found myself again. My family problems were also resolved in just a few weeks. Thank you so much!"
Sam, UK
"I just needed to know what was reasonable and what wasn't and now I have no problem saying no to anyone. I'm still polite but I'm definitely not being messed around anymore."
Helena, US
"Marlena showed me that not setting boundaries was actually causing the problems I tried to avoid by not setting boundaries. Doing it now is a no-brainer!"
'Together in Truth & Love' Is PERFECT For You If ...
🤍 You are ready to be your most empowered, confident and secure self in all of your relationships.
🤍 You want to be deeply connected to your partner and feel like each other's soulmates.
🤍 You want to express yourself, speak out and speak up honestly without feeling guilty, selfish or out of order.
🤍 You want to surround yourself with people who truly care about you and who you feel safe opening up to.
🤍 You want to feel more confident in your career too, be more assertive and reach your next goal.
Working with Marlena has helped me find my voice again. I used to be feisty but I feel like I lost myself in the last few years. Her ways of looking at things really make sense and so it was easy for me to be more assertive again and set boundaries with my husband. That's totally changed my relationship and made it a million times better!
– Aimee, US
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
✔️ Get crystal-clear on when you need to set a boundary so you never have to question yourself ever again.
✔️ Learn 5 different ways to state a boundary so you're never lost for words again.
✔️ Discover what to do when someone doesn't respect your boundaries or challenges you.
✔️ Learn how to set a boundary without feeling guilty, mean or selfish.
✔️ Find out how to improve every area of your life - romance, family, friends & business - by setting better boundaries.
✔️ Discover the most powerful secret that will help you attract the perfect partner, friend or client.
Here's What I've Learnt In My Own Life
I was brought up to be the good girl and to not annoy, inconvenience or offend anyone so I believed that being easy-going was the most important thing in relationships.
This is not the case. I got it wrong.
Today I know that what matters more than anything if you want to have a healthy, happy and loving relationship is to be honest about what works and doesn't work for you, about what you like and don't like, want and don't want.
Your truth won't harm the right relationship.
Instead, it will set you free, allow you to grow and experience a deep and nourishing love like no other.
Your truth matters.
And so, I wanted to create a simple but powerful and potent program for you that teaches you 5 different ways to say what you need to say without being offensive or confrontational.
Because self-expression is an act of love.
You're doing a person who loves you a disservice by hiding your truth from them. Never mind yourself ...
You're ready now to find your voice, speak your truth and give people the privilege of truly getting to know you so that they can choose you and create the most amazing relationship with you.
Your time is now and I'm here to help you learn how to set guilt-free boundaries with love, respect and kindness.
I'm Ready to Learn 5 Powerful Boundary Methods, Feel Confident & Transform My Relationships
