Get The Love You Need By Creating A Relationship That Works For You

Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns, Soothe Anxiety & Relax Into Your Relationship

with Marlena Tillhon MSc
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Get The Free '5 Questions' Guide: Is It Time To Move On?

There are 5 questions you need to ask yourself if you are not sure whether you're in the right relationship or not. Download your free guide and access it immediately to find out what to do next.

Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Work Through 'The Stay Or Go Method' To Find Out What To Do Next!

If doubts about your partner and relationship keep you up at night because you just can't figure out what to do next, the 'Stay or Go' program is perfect for you!

You'll find out whether you're compatible or not, whether there are hidden dealbreakers, a doomed dynamic or a massive intimacy gap that makes you unhappy in your relationship and question it.

You can get started straight away to find out what to do next! 

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Let's Work Together 1-1!

A customised and personalised support experience with an international expert in healing trauma and relationships

Make sense of your relationship struggles, heal the wounds that hold you back and learn the exact steps you need to create a relationship you can finally feel happy, relaxed and loved in.

Yes! Let's Do This!

Transform Your Love Life

SPECIAL OFFER - Save $888 Today!

Access my 4 most popular and successful courses immediately to eliminate drama, conflict and heartbreak once and for all and make space to reconnect and bring back the love, laughter and passion you've been longing for.

  • Set boundaries with love and confidence
  • Stop self-sacrificing and being codependent
  • Learn how to meet your needs in healthy ways
  • Stop over-performing and attract a supportive partner

You're ready for REAL LOVE!

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Yes! I'm Ready For Real Love!

Empowered & Secure In Love

Watch My 5 Most Popular & Powerful Masterclasses 

Access my 5 most popular and successful courses to overcome feeling insecure, anxious, triggered and agitated in your relationship and to bring back more love and connection.

  • Learn to Leave - how to leave a relationship without massive drama
  • Triggered by Love - how to deal with feeling triggered by your partner
  • Anxious Or Toxic - if you've wondered if it's your partner's fault or yours
  • Elevate - how to break codependent habits and finally matter in your relationship
  • Limitless You -¬†how to set boundaries without feeling¬†anxious or guilty
Exactly What I Need!

Hello There!

I'm Marlena, Conscious Relationship Coach & Psychotherapist

No matter what has happened to you in the past, you CAN create amazing relationships in which you feel safe, secure and loved in. And I am living proof of that!

I am here to reassure you that you can get the love you need too!

And you do this by taking back control: by healing past trauma, soothing anxious attachment, breaking free from fearful-avoidant attachment, healing abandonment wounds and reclaiming your sense of self-worth.

I have developed an empowering method that allows you to to have a new experience of love, relationships and yourself: The Secure Shifts.

Never give up on what you really want. Never give up on yourself. Never give up on love.

I'd love to show you how it's done!

With Love, Marlena

Marlena Tillhon Success Coach
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Marlena Tillhon Self-Actualisation Coach

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Transformative Programs

I have created powerful courses and masterclasses that will teach you the essential skills you need to get the love you need.

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1-1 Service

Get a customised support experience to identify your unique relationship challenges and come up with an action plan that works!

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Read My Articles

Find out more about my work and learn simple but highly effective ways to improve your relationships, wellbeing and love life. 

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It's Time To Turn Your Love Life Around! 

Follow me on Instagram for daily tips, support and empowered shifts that help you to improve your relationships, wellbeing and confidence consistently.

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Get My Free Gifts!

I have created lots of highly effective trainings and resources that will help you to get crystal-clear on what is healthy, loving and acceptable in relationships and what is not so that you can experience more of what you actually want and form deeper connections that nourish your heart, mind and soul. 

Here it's all about inner healing, clear self-expression and boundaries, dissolving love blocks, growing more secure within yourself, making a good partner choice and learning the skills necessary to create a conscious Epic Love relationship.

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Guilt-free Boundary Setting



Find out how you can say what you want and mean what you say without it escalating into an argument. It's time to speak your truth freely, set healthy boundaries without feeling guilty and massively improve your relationships.

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Letting Go Of Guilt & Codependency

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How To Handle Reactions To Your Boundaries

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A Message For Those With Big Dreams




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Marlena helped me see how what I believed about myself created so many of my problems. Now that I have developed a healthy relationship mindset, I am kind, respectful AND assertive. That's totally changed my relationship and made it a million times better!

– Aimee, US