Your Love Block Is:
The Entertainer
Your Love Boost Is:
RELAX INTO BEING YOU TO RECEIVE THE LOVE YOU WANT AND NEED
How? Find out below ...
THE ENTERTAINER
You are the life and soul of every party.
You’re outgoing, fun and full of energy.
People love being around you because you keep the vibe high.
In your relationship, you love to host and entertain your family and friends. After all, you are the perfect couple!
Or are you?
What could possibly be the problem with this?
There is nothing wrong with being outgoing, extroverted and fun-loving.
It just needs to be kept in balance so that there is always space for you to shine through.
Your relationship needs you - the authentic you - more than the entertaining you but because being entertaining gets such a good reception it’s easy to get stuck in that version of you.
In your romantic relationship, you partner might also take a backseat and wait for you to make things happen which then reinforces you being trapped in the role of the entertainer.
What are the negative consequences?
First and foremost, most people who take on the role of the entertainer find that they struggle to feel enough to just be themselves.
They have come to create these relationships that are built on the expectation for you to always be on and high-vibe.
This can lead to a lot of internal pressure and a build-up of resentment because others usually take a more passive position in relationship with you.
Consequently, you may feel unsupported but also somewhat insignificant because if others like you for being entertaining would they still like you for everything else that you are?
Great! So what should I do?
Everyone can learn to create healthy and loving relationships they feel safe, relaxed, wanted and loved in.
Everyone. Especially you!
You are kind, caring and fun-loving. Why wouldn’t someone have you by their side!?
There are just a few skills you need to learn that will help you to show up differently in your relationship so that your experience will change positively and dramatically even if your partner has some quirks of his own.
Here are some tips:
Create Space
Being an entertainer is exhausting!
Sure at first it energises you but in the long-term it can become draining - especially if you feel that this is what is expected of you.
Make sure that you create some space for yourself to just be you. Don’t distract yourself. Don’t fill the space with others.
Just create some space for you to connect with yourself, to understand what’s going on for you and to tap into sensing what you need to thrive.
This will help you to replenish your energy, reclaim your worth and show up in a way that’s more authentic and aligned.
Ditch People-Pleasing
Heal your inner people-pleaser!
You are enough as you are. You are allowed to have low days and to need support from others. It’s not always on you!
Maybe you grew up wishing one of your parents would pull themselves together and be there for you. Maybe you wanted to have more fun with them. Maybe you are doing today what you needed someone to do for you back then.
What would it look like if you actually did that but focused your attention in yourself?
What if every decision you made became about pleasing yourself?
Let Them Lead
When you entertain, you take the proactive position. You put yourself in charge. You create an illusion, a fantasy of what you want others to see.
They might admire you but you often wonder if they actually like you considering they rarely ever get to see all of you: the rawness, the vulnerability, the insecurity, the depth, the doubt, the soul.
In your relationship, that’s the part of you that longs to be seen. Step back, show up as you and let your partner lead.
Your job is to reveal the parts of you that establish connection and intimacy. Can you do that?
Are you ready to learn how to uplevel your love life?
Discover the exact steps to create your dream relationship
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It doesn't matter what happened before, there is a way for you to get the love you need and I'm here to teach you the exact steps that have helped me and hundreds of my private clients in feeling loved and appreciated by our partners.
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Imagine if ...
- You knew exactly where you have been going wrong in your relationships and how you can take full control of changing it.
- You could break unhealthy relationship patterns while healing, growing stronger and feeling great about yourself.
- You made your relationship your safe haven that allowed you to follow your dreams, go on exciting adventures together and felt fully loved.
- You had clear strategies and practices that helped you to create a relationship you love being in and that you feel proud of?
YOU CAN GET THE LOVE YOU NEED!
No one was taught how to do it so how could we possibly know?
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THIS IS WHAT WORKED FOR ME!
I've been walking the walk and it works!
Everything I teach and share has emerged through my own healing journey and my professional experience as a psychotherapist and attachment-based relationship coach.
I needed my work to have real-life impact because what's the point if it sounds nice but doesn't really work?
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a hugely important part of your personal evolution and also a revolution in terms of how we create relationships.
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With Love, Marlena xx
