Your Love Block Is:
THE ICE MAIDEN
Your Love Boost Is:
THAW & OPEN UP TO RECEIVE THE LOVE YOU WANT AND NEED
How? Find out below ...
The Ice Maiden
You enter a relationship hoping that it will be a lot better than the last time but with every argument and every disappointment, you shut down a little bit more.
You’re forgiving and tolerant but that comes at a cost!
Your trust.
The problem is that the more you shut down, the more distant you grow from your partner.
All of a sudden, he starts to feel like the enemy - someone you have to protect yourself from and you close down more and more to protect yourself from getting hurt.
So why is this such a big problem?
We get into relationships to connect to another human being on a deep and meaningful level.
We want to love and be loved.
But that is only possible when we feel safe, relaxed and comfortable with them.
And so, when we begin to protect ourselves from our partner, we are no longer able to connect.
We have moved into our threat system where past pain and old wounds live.
That kind of energy and state of disconnection eventually leads to the breakdown of your relationship.
By the end of it, you might even care every little about it.
After all, you shut down quite some time ago.
What’s the outlook for my love life?
There are two ways in which this love block and pattern plays out:
You’ll repeat this cycle again and again because you struggle to navigate conflict or process disappointment - something that’s inherent and natural in all relationships - and so continue to shut down no matter who you’re with.
You’ll give up on relationships altogether and become fiercely independent while suppressing your need for connection.
Neither is necessary!
Great! So what should I do?
Everyone can learn to create healthy and loving relationships they feel safe, relaxed, wanted and loved in.
Everyone. Especially you!
You are kind, caring and loving.
There are just a few skills you need to learn that will help you to show up differently in your relationship so that your experience will change positively and dramatically even if your partner has some quirks of his own.
Here are some tips:
Identify your relationship pattern
You need to track the unhealthy relationship pattern you are unconsciously repeating so that you can cut in and interrupt in.
You’re done with the old so you need to break any unhealthy relationship patterns that sabotage your love life from the inside out.
The better you know what leads to what, the easier it is to find the weak point of the pattern.
Try to list what happens and what that leads on to so that at one point you have the perfect diagram of the toxic relationship cycle you are stuck in.
Master your emotional reactions
When someone shuts down, it’s usually because they feel overwhelmed and don’t know how to respond to their feelings.
But being in a healthy adult relationship means that you need to stay open to your emotions and those of your partner if you want to feel emotionally connected and solve problems together.
Emotional self-mastery skills and self-regulation are key here!
Once you’ve got that sussed, there is no conversion you have to avoid because you know that you can handle it!
Communicate and learn to trust
There are ways in which we communicate that make it easy for the other person to listen to us, stay open and want to support us and then there are those that make them defensive, argumentative or even shut down too.
The key to building healthy relationships is to communicate what’s true for you in a way that invites cooperation instead of conflict.
When you talk, don’t make it about the other person and instead tell them what you want or need. That way they don’t feel attacked and you get to express yourself.
Are you ready to learn how to uplevel your love life?
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Imagine if ...
- You knew exactly where you have been going wrong in your relationships and how you can take full control of changing it.
- You could break unhealthy relationship patterns while healing, growing stronger and feeling great about yourself.
- You made your relationship your safe haven that allowed you to follow your dreams, go on exciting adventures together and felt fully loved.
- You had clear strategies and practices that helped you to create a relationship you love being in and that you feel proud of?
YOU CAN GET THE LOVE YOU NEED!
No one was taught how to do it so how could we possibly know?
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THIS IS WHAT WORKED FOR ME!
I've been walking the walk and it works!
Everything I teach and share has emerged through my own healing journey and my professional experience as a psychotherapist and attachment-based relationship coach.
I needed my work to have real-life impact because what's the point if it sounds nice but doesn't really work?
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With Love, Marlena xx
