Your Love Block Is:
THE MOTHER
Your Love Boost Is:
LEAN BACK TO RECEIVE THE LOVE YOU WANT AND NEED
How? Find out below ...
The Mother
You are kind, caring and supportive.
Everyone wants to be your friend because you are just so thoughtful and considerate.
If there’s a problem, people love talking to you about it because you help everyone to feel so much better.
You always have time for others and you are not afraid to go the extra mile to be helpful.
This also extends to your romantic partner.
Your caring nature fully shines through in your intimate relationship.
You would think that with your loving and nurturing attitude and personality you have perfected the art of romantic relating, right?
But it’s not quite panning out like that, is it?
So how does this turn into a love block?
There is nothing wrong with being nurturing and supportive but we mustn’t cross the line between partner and parent.
Mothering your partner creates an unhealthy imbalance that takes the ‘sexy’ out of your relationship.
Your partner’s brain will create all the wrong associations with you as you step into an old familiar pattern that may feel comfortable but isn’t conducive to creating a healthy adult relationship full of fun, romance, intimacy, passion and sex.
And you grow resentful as you settle into the unfulfilling role of giving, serving and nurturing while not receiving the romance and passion you crave.
What's causing this?
A lot of you slipping into this role is down to conditioning.
Maybe it’s what you were taught is expected of you.
Maybe it’s an extension of having been raised to be ‘The Good Girl’.
Maybe it’s an overcompensation for everything that you missed out on as a child.
Whatever it may for you needs healing and transcending so that you can begin to experience the mutually loving and beneficial relationships you crave.
Great! So what should I do?
Everyone can learn to create healthy and loving relationships they feel safe, relaxed, wanted and loved in.
Everyone. Especially you!
You are kind, caring and loving. Why wouldn’t someone have you by their side!?
There are just a few skills you need to learn that will help you to show up differently in your relationship so that your experience will change positively and dramatically even if your partner has some quirks of his own.
Here are some tips:
Equalise
You are not your partner’s parent or caretaker.
Your partner is responsible for taking care of their own basic needs and if you live together you are jointly responsible for the running of the household.
Let them take responsibility what they are responsible for.
This is not mean in any way. It is empowering and respectful.
Let them be an equal adult in the relationship. Show them how to take care of you too so that you both can support each other in being there for each other.
Learn to Receive
If you find yourself in the giving position, it can highlight some issues around receiving.
Explore how comfortable you feel with receiving attention, support, care and love.
How could you open up to receiving more and stepping more fully into your feminine energy?
You also want to consider whether you might have a subconscious receiving block because you don’t trust your partner to support you.
Sometimes we stop ourselves from desiring and receiving to maintain a one-sided relationship with a more selfish partner.
Set Healthy Boundaries
We don’t set boundaries when we mistakenly believe that they cause arguments. They do not if you set them from a place of love, respect and empowerment.
You co-create your adult relationship and you therefore have to communicate and negotiate. This is where boundaries come in.
Express what you want and don’t want. Say what you’re willing to accept and what’s a dealbreaker.
Then negotiate until you have reached a win-win solution. This is how you bond. This is how you make love last.
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Imagine if ...
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With Love, Marlena xx
